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Friday, July 17, 2009
Life is a series of rooms

I shall quickly pen this down while I'm still in the mood.

I'd like to talk about a specific type of people today.
You know the kind who dont commit to your appointment dates, then when the rest of you finally went out, they'd come, " EH, Bo Jio!". Don't you just feel like punching them?

Or the kind of people who always take you for granted. Dont give a shit about you during normal days, don reply your msges or turn you down when u ask them out. And by this, I'm DEFINITELY not pinpointing anyone( Bff and Ping take note. lol) as I've already blogged something like this previously(please refer to past entry). But this kinda issues never go away.

I'm sure most of us have this kind of friends. So what's the advice? I know some of us are soft hearted creatures. We keep trying and trying, feeling pek cek at the same time.
Personally, I'd advise leave them alone. Until they realised whats missing in their lives and then maybe they'll come find you. If they dont, then too bad. They probably dont realised that you're gone. It shows how 'important' you are to them.

I was asking Bff, I wondered if it was a bad habit. That I'd normally ask people out and after a few unsuccessful attempts, their names will automatically fall onto the black list.

Opportunities/chances dont come knocking at your door everyday. When they dont come anymore. You probably have to start CREATING them, instead of demanding like, ' Eh how come u don ask me out anymore' that kinda stuff. It's prolly your turn to ask them out.

Afterall friendship is about US.




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